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Comparing our Journeys

I think about my mom every day. Whether I am wondering what she would think of a situation or wishing I could talk to her, it is constant. Being the baby of my family, my mom was older when she … Continue reading

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The Ups and Downs of Private Practice

For many years, while working in Community Mental Health, I declared repeatedly that I had no desire to go into private practice. And yet, here I am. Time and various inflences led me here. I didn’t think I would like … Continue reading

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A lot can happen in 7 years

These pictures came up on my photo memories as being from 7 years ago. I cannot believe I graduated with my masters degree that long ago. In some ways, it seems like yesterday. In others, a lifetime ago. Since that … Continue reading

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Neck Pain and Rage

For quite a while now, I have been struggling with horrible neck pain. I see a structural massage therapist as often as I can, which is about 2x a month. He helps a lot in the moment, but so far, … Continue reading

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You think it matters

We all can get caught up in life. Betrayal. Hurt feelings. Then your child texts you and says, “I need to call you, badly.” That is not our usual convo. “Mom! I flipped my car!” “I hit the pole.” She … Continue reading

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Is the Universe Conspiring?

One of my favorite shows is Shrinking. It is on Apple TV. The premise is: ” A therapist, Jimmy Laird, dealing with severe grief after his wife’s death, begins to breach ethical barriers by telling his patients what he really … Continue reading

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Being in the Present Moment- John Cusack Edition

Last November, I noticed that John Cusack, probably my biggest celebrity crush from high school, was going to be in Pittsburgh to talk about his movie, Serendipity. Also a favorite. I immediately purchased two tickets. I had no idea who … Continue reading

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Planning for a Hard Day

As I said in my last post, I am already braced for the anniversary of both of my parents’ death: February 9. I know that what I need most to get through that day is connection. I need to feel … Continue reading

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February 9

Here we go again. This day is full of so much emotion. On this day in 2022, my mom died. She was my person. I feel her absence every single day. On this day in 2023, my dad died. I … Continue reading

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The things I am learning about myself through therapy

I had therapy yesterday. I have had a lot of therapy in my lifetime, to be honest. I am currently seeing my therapist monthly. We have worked through a lot together and I am so grateful for her. During my … Continue reading

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